YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!

[Dr. Manhattan]

So I had a problem, a conundrum if you will. A while ago I found out that two girls were interested in me, both of which I was interested in as well. Eventually, after trying to go after one, she seemed to fend off my advances and I decided it was a lost cause. I pursued the other girl who returned and shared my feelings. The problem became, we wanted to date, but the other girl apparently had began to discover these repressed feelings.

So these two girls are friends, and the one I want to date is friends with the other one. Eventually I decided that I needed to talk to the other girl. I did, and I did a terrible job of it, by the end she was in tears and I was at a loss for words. The girl that I want to date said yes after I asked her out later that night. Now the girl that I made cry is insisting that it's all fine and she has no hard feelings, which I know is a complete lie. My problem is that I don't know how to smooth things over between me and the girl I hurt.

[~Sean~]

I'd say you should just leave it alone for a while. I'm sure you let her down easy (or as best you could), and that's really all you can do at this point in time. Let her emotions escape this state of flux by distancing yourself from her for a while, and hopefully she actually will be okay with what happened at some point in the future.

Also, just in case you're feeling like the bad guy here, remember that she originally had the choice; her being indecisive realistically isn't your fault.

[Grey Angel]

I completely agree with Sean, very little to say. But what I can say is this:

Try to have your girlfriend not talk to her, for the other girl may feel jealous towards her and try and hurt both of you. So just take at least 3 days off, and the way you bring her down is to just say that she had her chance, and that your girlfriend was actually sharing the same feelings you were. She had her chance, but you had a better option. She probably was trying to play hard to get, and because of that, she's mad that she lost.

Of course, I would tell her straight up, but you seem more of a nicer guy than me. Then again, I have been told I have no soul... LMAO!

[SonicBoom95]

The girl you wanted to date is friends with the one you made cry. She should have slapped your face for that, cause you deserve it !

[Dr. Manhattan]

Of course, I would tell her straight up, but you seem more of a nicer guy than me. Then again, I have been told I have no soul... LMAO!

I would disagree.

But thanks for the advice everyone. I'm going to wait a bit and then try to talk to her.

The girl you wanted to date is friends with the one you made cry. She should have slapped your face for that, cause you deserve it !

Don't I know it.

[Cody.]

I went though the same conflict not to long ago, my ex girlfriend and I wanted to get back together after we had spent sometime apart thinking about things and her best friend suddenly developed some serious feelings for me, so once she found out my ex and I were planning to get back together, all hell broke loose and it sucked.

I would have to say that Sean has basically covered everything, there's nothing you can really do at this point right now except let things ease down a bit before things really get ugly. This other girl as got to except the fact that she did reject you and you moved on and that you've found someone else as of now. Just back off for a little while, let your 'girlfriend' settle things with her friend then when things are eased up, you can continue on from there. Some girls just let there emotions get the best of them and they just make things harder than they need to be. (lets face it, girls are difficult. :P)

[SonicBoom95]

Some girls slap faces, depending on their personality!

[Tiki]

You said that you knew that there were no hard feelings. Are you completely sure?
After this break is taken, you should talk to her and say, "Look, I know what happened wasn't awesome, but if there's something more to this, you should tell me."
That should give an absolute answer.

I mean, how long have you known these two?

(lets face it, girls are difficult. :P)
Truer have basically never been said.

that is: Truer words have never been said.

[SonicBoom95]

At least Dr.Cox has 2 girlfriends who WERE interested in him, and SonicBoom95 went up to someone who had NO interest in him whatsoever. No wonder SonicBoom95 received these text messages, he deserved what he got!

Don't make the same mistake I did!

Hey SonicBoom95, I hope that Serena will slap your face for sneaking up on her, since you say that she doesn't give a **** about you.

Yeah SonicBoom95, you just don't know who you're dealing with.

Cody is right! If you were in my hometown SonicBoom95 and you said that right up in my face, you'd be dead in no time flat.

I hope that her other friend Penny slaps you too for harrassing her friend!

Yeah, if I were Serena's boyfriend, you'd be introduced to the source of my anger to my steel fists and kick your ass BIG TIME

So why the hell do you come here and make these stupid topics SonicBoom95? Or shuld I say Sonic BUM 95?

Hey SonicBUM, I hope you realize that we're all making fun of you. You deserve everything very much that you're gonna get.

How does that feel SonicBoom95? No one wants you here you girl harrassing jerk?

Yeah, topic stays open, you don't. Happy BANSgiving SonicBoom95!

By the way, thanks for motivating more girls for our riot against you, SonicBoom95 you crybaby!

[satanic]

dont tell them not to talk, they are freinds and the only way for them to stay that way is if you help them stay friends.

[Crazy Jamie]

That'll be a warning for that post SonicBoom. Looks very much like someone else on your account, so perhaps you should take more care. Remember, everything done on your account is your responsibility.