Ay i need help really bad

[soulja 25]

ight this gurl i met last year in july cuz ma freind intrudced me n eva sicne den we been talkin n we were like kickin it like over last nov n dec n this jan feb n march n april n den i asked hurr out on june 20 n then we went out fo a month n den we went back out den we broke up den we still talk n i took hurr to hc n i messed up (im not gunna get into it its to long) n now she cant trust me right now n we luv each otha alot n we told each otha things we neva told anyone n she said it will take a while fo hurr ot trust me again n now sum guy she used to talk to n he wanted to get wit hurr but she said no cuz she had me but now we like ech otha n luv each otha but wont go out yet i want to but she dont now n diz otha guy iz talkin to hurr n he wants to get wit hurr they went out like in april for like one day den hebroke up wit hurr n now he wants hurr back n she thinks he really likes hurr n im koo wit da guy to he dont no i like hurr still n hes bein sweet to hurr n stuff n i dont like it so idk n i asked hurr yesterday if she likes him n she said idk hes sweet n nice but idk but i thought she luved me n liked me so idk wat to do should i leave hurr or keep tryin n shes rich to haha but yea help guys

[Kid_A]

First of all, please try to use a program with spell check for your next post. That was hellish to read and understand.

Second of all, what I did get out of it is that you broke this girls trust. That's a *really* hard thing to get back. If she actually loved you, the fact that some other guy was interested would be a moot point. She'd be with you.
From the sounds of it, I would move on. If she's having this hard a time deciding between someone she "loves" and someone who's being "sweet to her," she's more than likely not going to be someone you want to be with.
Lastly, her being rich should have nothing to do with your decision. Money won't make you feel any better if you find out she never really loved you. There's a reason the phrase "money can't buy happiness" exists.

[soulja 25]

yea true thanks man but its reallllllllly hard tho cuz i luv this gurl sooo much and its hard to move on ya know n i talked her last night n she said she likes me n luvs me but she dosent want a realshionship right now so i dont know wat to do

[caleb221]

sorry but I think ur gay

[soulja 25]

ay how am i gay i think u gay cuz i probly never had a girl u propbly a 31 year old nerd at lest i know whay love is

[MachSpeed]

Well, there are times where when something is lost, no matter how much you want or wanted it, that you can't get back. Whether it be love, work, maybe even that toy you played with all the time as a kid. It's at the times where things just don't seem to work out that you need to ask yourself "Is it time to move on?" It might seem harsh, but life tends to pull it on us often. Look at what is happening and what might happen, without over thinking, and determine if you need to move on and find someone new. Learn from the mistakes, if any, that you made and take the next step, no matter how much it might hurt. Do what you feel is right.

[Demikain]

sorry but I think ur gay
Yeah I'm gonna have to agree here.

[MachSpeed]

Hey guys, out of proper respect, I see no reason to criticize or make assumptions about anyone. They come here for advice, not to be judged.

[Aphrodite]

Yeah I'm gonna have to agree here.

Well, that wasn't very bright of you.

Warning for trolling.

ay how am i gay i think u gay cuz i probly never had a girl u propbly a 31 year old nerd at lest i know whay love is

...Neither was that.

Warning for slur.

[Spawn17]

yea true thanks man but its reallllllllly hard tho cuz i luv this gurl sooo much and its hard to move on ya know n i talked her last night n she said she likes me n luvs me but she dosent want a realshionship right now so i dont know wat to do

Sounds like this girl doesn't know what she wants. If i were you, i'd give her some time and some space. Maybe work on some other relationships a bit, make some friends. I wouldn't wait for her though. If you give her time and your ready, but she's not, I would move on.

Well, that wasn't very bright of you.

Warning for trolling.

Owned. :D

[Demikain]

Owned. :D
It's not like I didn't know I was going to get warned.

[MachSpeed]

Take the argument elsewhere Demikain, it's not always important to have the last word.

[Demikain]

Take the argument elsewhere Demikain, it's not always important to have the last word.
It is of utmost importance.

[Nezero]

I must ask how old is the OP?

[Spawn17]

It's not like I didn't know I was going to get warned.

Oh, so your saying your an idiot on purpose?

[soulja 25]

ight thanks guys ill give time but then if she dosent want me back then im out of her life

[MachSpeed]

Alright, that's the best decision to make. Wait for her to choose, then make your move. I wish you the best of luck!

[Spawn17]

Yes, as do I.

[Demikain]

Oh, so your saying your an idiot on purpose?
My saying my an idiot :confused:

[Victoria]

Oh, so your saying your an idiot on purpose?
You do realize that you're gonna get warned for that, right? Ironic.

[Aphrodite]

I'm not going to warn him for the truth. That's exactly what Demi did.

But he's blocked now, so everyone can drop it.

[Spawn17]

You do realize that you're gonna get warned for that, right? Ironic.

Yes it would be ironic. Very much so.

Tell us how it goes soulja 25

[soulja 25]

ight i will im talkin to her now n she likes us both

[robso]

ight this gurl i met last year in july cuz ma freind intrudced me n eva sicne den we been talkin n we were like kickin it like over last nov n dec n this jan feb n march n april n den i asked hurr out on june 20 n then we went out fo a month n den we went back out den we broke up den we still talk n i took hurr to hc n i messed up (im not gunna get into it its to long) n now she cant trust me right now n we luv each otha alot n we told each otha things we neva told anyone n she said it will take a while fo hurr ot trust me again n now sum guy she used to talk to n he wanted to get wit hurr but she said no cuz she had me but now we like ech otha n luv each otha but wont go out yet i want to but she dont now n diz otha guy iz talkin to hurr n he wants to get wit hurr they went out like in april for like one day den hebroke up wit hurr n now he wants hurr back n she thinks he really likes hurr n im koo wit da guy to he dont no i like hurr still n hes bein sweet to hurr n stuff n i dont like it so idk n i asked hurr yesterday if she likes him n she said idk hes sweet n nice but idk but i thought she luved me n liked me so idk wat to do should i leave hurr or keep tryin n shes rich to haha but yea help guys
just show her that she can trust her

ight thanks guys ill give time but then if she dosent want me back then im out of her life
just give it a try she'll come back it depends

well this is the problem with my shawty sh be tripin she say i be messing with her friend but i don't

[KingJazzaD12]

well if you still love her i personally would try to regain her trust which is a horrifically hard thing to do with girls

just tell her your feelings and she may forgive you

although if you dont dump her like a hobo dumps an empty bottle of beer

[soulja 25]

ight lol thanks guys ill try now she got a new bf

[CDink]

is it that other gentleman? even if it's not, there dozens of soulja girls in the sea. If she says she loves you, maybe one day you can have a relationship again. but play the field a bit, she clearly is.

[al majnun]

ight this gurl i met last year in july cuz ma freind intrudced me n eva sicne den we been talkin n we were like kickin it like over last nov n dec n this jan feb n march n april n den i asked hurr out on june 20 n then we went out fo a month n den we went back out den we broke up den we still talk n i took hurr to hc n i messed up (im not gunna get into it its to long) n now she cant trust me right now n we luv each otha alot n we told each otha things we neva told anyone n she said it will take a while fo hurr ot trust me again n now sum guy she used to talk to n he wanted to get wit hurr but she said no cuz she had me but now we like ech otha n luv each otha but wont go out yet i want to but she dont now n diz otha guy iz talkin to hurr n he wants to get wit hurr they went out like in april for like one day den hebroke up wit hurr n now he wants hurr back n she thinks he really likes hurr n im koo wit da guy to he dont no i like hurr still n hes bein sweet to hurr n stuff n i dont like it so idk n i asked hurr yesterday if she likes him n she said idk hes sweet n nice but idk but i thought she luved me n liked me so idk wat to do should i leave hurr or keep tryin n shes rich to haha but yea help guys


Hey, like the song by Jimi goes: "...And if my baby don't love me no more, I know her sister well...". Just move on. You'll do you both a favour. This one just ain't worth it. Either because you blew it or because it just wasn't meant to. Doesn't matter anymore. What's done is done.

[Flip-Hkd]

ight lol thanks guys ill try now she got a new bf


Just because she is dating somebody else doesn't mean she doesn't like/love/want you.

Just do your own thing like her, and maybe you two will happen again down the road, because if she means it when she says she loves you then she shouldn't be forgetting you anytime soon, so keep in touch but try not to keep ALL your attention stuck on her. And if things go bad with her current guy, she'll realize you were still there the whole time, and may re consider.