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GameWinRAR
October 10th, 2007, 06:58 PM
Well, Ive been best friends with this group for about 2 years now. One day we were just riding our bikes back and forth, and out of nowhere, my worst enemies (my old Friends) come over and ask if they wanna play some football. When they asked, I rode past them with a dirty look and headed for home. Now, they NEVER played with them like there doing now.
The reason why I don't like theses guys is they bullied me and used me. And since there are younger kids who play over their, there not fighting. So, now they go over to their house almost everyday. But I know for a fact that their only using their yard just to play football (not that i have anything against football) I would just go over there, but I know it would result in some kinda fight. So... now i see my OLD friends (enemy's) Play over my friends yards even when there not even home! If i just told my friends that, they would just say Your just saying that because your afraid of them! Even if i go over there to say *wanna hang out?* They just say Where going to play football with **NAMES BLOCKED**
So.... My question is what do I do if i wanna hang out with em like old times without my enemy's coming over too?

Sleepwalker
October 10th, 2007, 10:17 PM
You prove somehow that your "Enimies" are bad people. Or you could just try to get along somehow...

SegaDragon
October 10th, 2007, 11:32 PM
Ya. Either let bygones be bygones or record them playing football on your camera.

Quixotron
October 19th, 2007, 01:12 PM
find some new friends...lenty of them to go around. i dunno. Life is so @#$%ing complicated.

just go over there and play football and leave it at that.

MachSpeed
October 19th, 2007, 06:22 PM
Well, I've experienced a similar problem. What I had to realize is that I had to make amends! I hated it with a bloody passion, no doubt, the first time I made that decision. What really threw me off guard was how quickly we rekindled the friendship. Although they might have done something that you disliked in the past, they may have changed. If not, make friends with them, be yourself, and influence change. See what you can do and just follow your intuition.